COMMUNICATION

Just feel like talking about communication before i sleep

COMMUNICATION,

1 of the most important things that we need to know

its always there

and when its done wrongly

you can really say BYE BYE

cause indeed it can really affects alot

there are alot of situation where by communication needs to work hand in hand with how ones think.

that's why there are different level and platform of communication

the speaker and the receiver are not necessary to be at the same platform in a communication

which hence, many of the time, what the receiver receive in the conversation might not be what the speaker intends to send over

i believe both speaker and receiver need to work together to prevent all these

BUT~!

it is very very rare that this can be happening

being human being

we have to admit that we are selfish in a way

that the very 1st thing that always get onto our mind when things happen is to think of ourselves first.

Hence many of the time we will just speak out what we have in mind(a form of self defense) without thinking what the receiver will feel after hearing it.

i really encourage all of us

to really spend at least 20 sec before you really want to throw out nasty words

think of ...

1. WHY are you saying it
2. HOW will the person feel,
3. WHAT will happen after you speaks (will it allow u to feel better?)

after you make your mind clear/ reflected

you might speak it at a total different way

which might end up allowing you to have a better ending

indeed...

"THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK"

with love

CYRA